Signs of Infidelity

Signs of Infidelity      


Statistics tell us that 50% of men who think their partner is cheating are correct and 85% of women who notice signs of infidelity are right.  Infidelity is steadily increasing.

If you suspect infidelity with your partner call R7 at 847-526-7727. All calls are confidential.

Here are some of the common signs of infidelity:

  • The most common situation in which infidelity takes place is if an opportunity presents itself — business trips with colleagues, carpools, meetings at a gym.
  • More time spent away from home, frequent absences — shopping, conferences, seminars, business trips, fishing, working late, trips to places where the spouse will be not able to be contacted
  • Lack of interest in sex and avoiding sex using ridiculous reasons
  • Distraction, daydreaming, disorganization
  • Evenings out “with the girls” or “with poker buddies.”  The spouse is not included
  • Secrecy – the spouse turns off the computer monitor when someone enters the room or goes outdoors or to another room to talk on the phone
  • Late night computer use
  • High phone bills
  • Secret credit cards
  • Checks up on the spouse to make sure he/she won’t be checking on the cheater
  • High mileage on the car or not enough mileage on the car when he/she was supposed to be going a long distance
  • Refuses rides to or pickups from the airport
  • Clothes smell of a perfume or aftershave of the opposite sex
  • Spouse brings home clean laundry
  • Spouse returns from work in different clothes
  • Unexplained credit card charges or payments on the bank statement, unexplained receipts
  • Credit card charges made in town when he/she was supposedly out of town
  • Secret withdrawals of money or secret credit cards
  • Less money deposited from a paycheck into a joint bank account

Here are more signs of infidelity:

  • Many, long phone calls
  • Has a secret cell phone or unknown numbers stored
  • Has a secret e-mail address and account
  • Deletion of e-mail messages, phone messages, etc
  • Has a “special friend” of the opposite sex
  • The innocent spouse receives special gifts or flowers for no reason.
  • The cheating partner suspects his/her partner and acts accusatory, due to his/her own guilt.
  • Has deposit slips for someone else’s bank account
  • Loans money for unusual reasons or lies about where the money went
  • Carries someone else’s house keys or garage door opener
  • Makes drastic and wide-ranging efforts to lose weight, buy sexy underwear, color hair, and improve wardrobe, grooming, and hygiene
  • Makes a change in attitude, usually perceived as not caring as much about the spouse or not making an effort within the relationship
  • Refuses to talk about extramarital affairs or people he/she once showed interest in
  • Suddenly has many new friends and hangouts
  • Not being where he/she said he/she would be
  • Cryptic remarks made by friends (They are hints.)
  • Removal of the kids’ toys and car seats from the car
  • Items in the car do not belong to anyone in the family
  • Gets a sexually transmitted disease
  • Has a change in body odor
  • Strange personal items are found in the home when the spouse has been away — sometimes left on purpose by the cheater’s lover for the spouse to find
  • Hidden gifts or cards don’t show up on holidays or birthdays (Check car trunks and the garage, tool boxes, sanitary napkin boxes.)
  • Has cybersex or meets people in person from chat rooms
  • Shows uncomfortable behavior around a friend or neighbor of the opposite sex ignores the person
  • Avoids work colleagues when accompanied by the spouse

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