Signs of Infidelity

Signs of Infidelity      

(Source: http://www.catchacheat.com/)

Statistics tell us that 50% of men who think their partner is cheating are correct and 85% of women who notice signs of infidelity are right.  Infidelity is steadily increasing.

If you suspect infidelity with your partner call R7 at 847-526-7727. All calls are confidential.

Here are some of the common signs of infidelity:

• The most common situation in which infidelity takes place is if an opportunity presents itself — business trips with colleagues, carpools, meetings at a gym.
• More time spent away from home, frequent absences — shopping, conferences, seminars, business trips, fishing, working late, trips to places where the spouse will be not able to be contacted
• Lack of interest in sex and avoiding sex using ridiculous reasons
• Distraction, daydreaming, disorganization
• Evenings out “with the girls” or “with poker buddies.”  The spouse is not included
• Secrecy – the spouse turns off the computer monitor when someone enters the room or goes outdoors or to another room to talk on the phone
• Late night computer use
• High phone bills
• Secret credit cards
• Checks up on the spouse to make sure he/she won’t be checking on the cheater
• High mileage on the car or not enough mileage on the car when he/she was supposed to be going a long distance
• Refuses rides to or pickups from the airport
• Clothes smell of a perfume or aftershave of the opposite sex
• Spouse brings home clean laundry
• Spouse returns from work in different clothes
• Unexplained credit card charges or payments on the bank statement, unexplained receipts
• Credit card charges made in town when he/she was supposedly out of town
• Secret withdrawals of money or secret credit cards
• Less money deposited from a paycheck into a joint bank account

Here are more signs of infidelity:

• Many, long phone calls
• Has a secret cell phone or unknown numbers stored
• Has a secret e-mail address and account
• Deletion of e-mail messages, phone messages, etc
• Has a “special friend” of the opposite sex
• The innocent spouse receives special gifts or flowers for no reason.
• The cheating partner suspects his/her partner and acts accusatory, due to his/her own guilt.
• Has deposit slips for someone else’s bank account
• Loans money for unusual reasons or lies about where the money went
• Carries someone else’s house keys or garage door opener
• Makes drastic and wide-ranging efforts to lose weight, buy sexy underwear, color hair, and improve wardrobe, grooming, and hygiene
• Makes a change in attitude, usually perceived as not caring as much about the spouse or not making an effort within the relationship
• Refuses to talk about extramarital affairs or people he/she once showed interest in
• Suddenly has many new friends and hangouts
• Not being where he/she said he/she would be
• Cryptic remarks made by friends (They are hints.)
• Removal of the kids’ toys and car seats from the car
• Items in the car do not belong to anyone in the family
• Gets a sexually transmitted disease
• Has a change in body odor
• Strange personal items are found in the home when the spouse has been away — sometimes left on purpose by the cheater’s lover for the spouse to find
• Hidden gifts or cards don’t show up on holidays or birthdays (Check car trunks and the garage, tool boxes, sanitary napkin boxes.)
• Has cybersex or meets people in person from chat rooms
• Shows uncomfortable behavior around a friend or neighbor of the opposite sex ignores the person
• Avoids work colleagues when accompanied by the spouse

Call TODAY for a FREE CASE EVALUATION
847-526-7727